"We all think we’re going to be great and we feel a little bit robbed when our expectations aren’t met. But sometimes expectations sell us short. Sometimes the expected simply pales in comparison to the unexpected. You got to wonder why we cling to our expectations, because the expected is just what keeps us steady. Standing. Still, the expected's just the beginning, the unexpected is what changes our lives."- Grey's Anatomy

Color Test - Results

Your Existing Situation

“Works well with others, as long as she doesn’t have to take the lead. Longs for relationships which are understanding and relatively conflict-free.”

Your Stress Sources

“Needs to meet people who have the same high principals and values as himself, but finds the need unfulfilled. her need to feel dominate and superior leaves her feeling isolated and does not allow for her to give freely of himself. she would like to surrender and let go, but sees that as a weakness she must not give in to. Holding back will allow her to stand out for the crowd and earn a higher status, recognized by others as unique and important.”

Your Restrained Characteristics

Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.

“Current situation makes her feel unable to prove himself, but tries to make the best of things.”

“Insists her hopes and ideas are realistic and achievable, but needs encouragement and support. her self-centeredness can cause her to take things too personally.”

“Insists her hopes and ideas are realistic and achievable, but needs encouragement and support. her self-centeredness can cause her to take things too personally.”

Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.

Your Desired Objective

“Strives for full life which includes activities and experiences, as well as, a close relationship offering sexual and emotional satisfaction.”

Your Actual Problem

“Enjoys making new plans and goals, but needs to be respected and admired for the things she accomplishes.”